The Portal
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This week on The Portal, we feature a conversation between Oprah and world renowned influential teacher and speaker Caroline Myss discuss life purpose, grace and intuition.
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LIFE PURPOSE AND PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT-
THE WAY OF INTEGRITY
Feeling confused about your life purpose
Feeling lost or stuck and loss of any identity
Experience lack of intuition and joy
Feeling like you’ve lived to someone else’s expectations
Confused as to who you are and what you want
Have success but feeling a lack of happiness
Feeling misaligned or off track
Great read for people pleasers -
BREAKING THE HABIT OF BEING YOURSELF
Feeling sick of being yourself
Find you’re repeating patterns
Experience difficulty in breaking habits
Realizing you have limiting beliefs
Feeling stagnant or stuck in life
Wishing for different outcomes
Comparing yourself to higher achievers
Great read into neuroscience and reprogramming neural pathways -
SACRED CONTRACTS
Wondering about life purpose
Asking yourself “what am I here to do?”
Going through an existential crisis
Feeling like your life is meaningless
Making sense of difficult situations and the “why”
Curious about patterns and archetypes
At a crossroads in life and confused about which direction is yours
Wondering what this life is trying to teach you -
101 ESSAYS THAT WILL CHANGE THE WAY YOU THINK
Going through a life transition
Overthinking your whole life
Feeling open to different perspectives
Feeling stuck with same repetitive patterns of thinking
Feeling like you’re outgrowing your old life
Have lived a life focused on what you “should” be doing
Feeling pressured and lost
Great for expanding your mind and the way your seeing things -
CHANGE YOUR THOUGHTS CHANGE YOUR LIFE
In search for intention and inspiration
Have been stuck in a loop of negative thought patterns
Feel like you’re forcing life rather than letting it unfold
Curious about principles in abundance and gratitude
In need of a shift to how you’re approaching life
Feeling pessimistic or in a rut
Looking for a more meaningful way of living your life
Great introductory self help reading -
THE POWER OF THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND
Realising your life is at the mercy of deeply engrained beliefs
Have trouble manifesting or attracting positive outcomes
Feeling a lot of fear and self doubt
Feeling like what you want and what you’re attracting is not aligning
Willing to deep dive into your thoughts, emotions and behaviors
In desperate need of change
Want a better understanding into exactly how your beliefs are influencing the rest of your life -
THE TOP FIVE REGRETS OF THE DYING
Feeling scared to live out the life you truly desire
Caring too much of what others think of you
Repressing any feelings, intimacy, and truths
Living small, safe and afraid of risk
Living a life and working to other peoples expectations at the expense of your own desires and needs
Ready for a great wake up call
Great for workaholics or people pleasers -
LIVING BEAUTIFULLY
Finding yourself in a period of uncertainty and change
Always feeling anxious about the future
Experiencing issues with control and difficulty in letting go
Finding that your life is not going according to plan
Moving through a break up, career change or life pivot
Trouble navigating uncertainty and anxiety
Experience difficulty staying present
Great introductory book into buddhist philosophy
TRAUMA, THE BODY AND HEALING-
CODEPENDENT NO MORE
Feeling like you have to look after everyone else at the expense of yourself
Feeling guilt when saying no or setting boundaries
Hyper fixated on other peoples needs
Always in the role of rescuer or fixer
Feel an immense amount of pressure to save people
Constant worry and anxiety about other peoples feelings, moods or experiences
Extremely hyper vigilant to others and put your needs last
Feeling like you’ve lost yourself, who you are and your needs -
ADULT CHILDREN OF IMMATURE PARENTS
Have difficulty separating yourself from another
Constantly feeling responsible for other peoples emotions
Feeling a lot of guilt when enforcing boundaries
Constantly attracted to emotionally unavailable partners
Experience deep triggers and reactive around family and caregivers
Fulfilling care taker roles and struggle with people pleasing
Understanding relational trauma and where it started
You were a parentified child with adult responsibilities
Always felt unsafe or hypervigilant with family dynamics -
HEALING THE SHAME THAT BINDS YOU
Constantly feeling like something is wrong with you
Feeling ashamed and hateful towards yourself
Lacking in boundaries
Feeling like you have to be performative to be accepted and loved
Constantly struggling with low self worth and confidence
Hiding parts of yourself or living in denial of a self
Never feeling good enough
Great for people pleasers and perfectionists -
THE BODY KEEPS THE SCORE
Curious about the lasting impacts of trauma or how difficult experiences are stored in the physical body
Often feel triggered and reactive and seek a deeper understanding of the “why”
You struggle to feel safe and regulated in your nervous system
Frustrated with repeating certain patterns of emotions, triggers and behaviors
Have the inability to let go or get over certain situations
Curious to delve into the study of PTSD and its effects on the body
The bible book for all trauma, mind and body connection work -
WAKING THE TIGER
Curious about the connection of trauma, past experiences to the body and the nervous system
Alway feel alert, hyper vigilant and reactive
Often feel disconnected to your body and emotions
Constantly stuck in fight, flight or freeze
Feel like your body is carrying something your mind can’t rationalize
Emotional overwhelm or feeling triggered is a regular state of being for you
Often experience constant bouts of restlessness and unease
Great if you have an interest in somatic healing -
WHEN THINGS FALL APART
Feeling like your whole world is unraveling
Great for navigating grief, loss, heartbreak or major life transitions
Trying to find meaning in difficult situations
Feeling called to start over
In need of grounding or feelings of safety during uncertain times
Seeking a spiritual perspective on life
Feeling disappointed towards self and how life turned out
Feeling vulnerable and raw
Finding it difficult to accept your current situation
Feeling anxious about not having any answers -
LOVING WHAT IS
Struggling to accept a certain reality such as a break up, change or rejection
Always caught in repetitive stressful thinking
Constantly dwelling or obsessing over the same situations
Suffering at the hand of believing your own thoughts
Feeling like the world is against you
Constantly wishing things were different than they are
Seeking separation and relief from thought patterns
Feeling exhausted and caged by the voices in your mind
Ready to examine thoughts and acquire helpful practices -
EASTERN BODY WESTERN MIND
Interested in exploring childhood experiences and its connection to emotional patterns and adult behaviors
Feeling blocked in certain areas of your life
Curious to learn about the mind, body and emotional energetics
Curious to learn where emotions such as anger, grief and fear are stored in the body and why
Ready to learn about parts of yourself the mind couldn’t rationalize
Great introduction into chakra systems and energetics through spirituality and an Eastern lens -
WHEN THE BODY SAYS NO
Constantly feeling stressed and overwhelmed
Feel disconnected from your body or numb
Curious to learn about childhood experiences and its connection to adult patterns and behaviors
Tend to suppress emotions such as anger or sadness
Difficulty setting boundaries or saying no
Lost the ability to listen to yourself or your body
Hard time expressing yourself or communicating
LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS-
ALL ABOUT LOVE
Questioning what healthy love feels and looks like
Constantly confusing love with attachment and sacrifice
Recovering from difficult relationship or heartbreak
Feelings of loneliness even with company
Struggle with both giving and accepting healthy love
Want to understand love beyond romance and desire
Have always struggled in knowing what is a safe healthy relationship
Great for people questioning the state of their current relationships -
GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT
Keep finding yourself in the same type of relationship
Experiencing same patterns with different partners
Feel misunderstood in most relationships
Constantly navigating old wounds and insecurities in partnerships
Want to understand how childhood experiences show up in relationships
Looking for tools to navigate difficulty in relationships
Feeling triggered by partner and want to understand why -
ATTACHED
Constantly feel anxious in relationships
Overthinks and overanalyzes everything
Pattern of attracting distant or anxious partners
Feeling like you constantly have to bid for connection or affection
Also for people who distance themselves from closeness and intimacy
Feel repulsed when people get too close and attracted when people withdraw
Great if you are in an inconsistent and confusing relationship dynamic -
NONVIOLENT COMMUNICATION
Struggling to express your needs without getting reactive
Always feel misunderstood and unheard
Navigating a safe way to set boundaries
Looking for practical tools for difficult conversations
Always feel defensive and reactive
Experiencing recurring arguments with no resolve
Want to adopt healthy communication with family and friends
Difficulty expressing your truth without hurting another -
TINY BEAUTIFUL THINGS
Feeling lonely, disconnected or misunderstood
Looking for new perspectives on love and stories of difficult love
Sick of love stories and happy endings
Feeling lost, regretful or uncertain of love and life
In need of courage and compassion
You’re heartbroken and feeling alone
Dealing with grief or loss
Great if you feel your life is messy and you seek perspective -
CODEPENDENT NO MORE
Feeling like you have to look after your partner at the expense of yourself
Feel guilt when saying no
Hyperfixated on your partners needs and moods causing anxiety
Always in the role of rescuer or fixer
Feel an immense amount of pressure to save people
Difficulty setting boundaries guilt free
Lost touch with yourself and your own needs
MANIFESTING AND MONEY-
THE GAME OF LIFE AND HOW TO PLAY IT
Great entry level book into the art of manifesting
Feeling like your always fighting the flow instead of letting go
Interested in the power of words and thoughts and how that mirrors into circumstance and experience
Want to explore intuition and faith
Lived with a pattern of scarcity mindset, negativity and fear
Exploring how your current state of mind is attracting and mirroring things in your life
Great for people with an open mind and curiosity towards the power of belief -
ASK AND IT IS GIVEN
Feeling stuck and in need of a shift
Interested in manifestation and law of attraction
Want to attract different circumstances in life
Curious to learn the principles of visualization, affirmation and intentional thinking
Need help getting clarity with what you actually desire and want to call in
Want to learn about alignment and living in alignment
You like to be in control or live in anxiety
Great for people who struggle with negative thinking -
THINK AND GROW RICH
Interested in money and energetics of money
Curious about wealth building and energetics
Needs motivation or encouragement to live out goals
Great for people who tend to easily feel defeated in ambitions
Interested in Law of Attraction with money principles
Feeling exhausted and looking for faith
Riddled with self doubt and lack of confidence
Perfect for people venturing out on their own
Looking to build a different belief system around money
Help in building confidence and endurance to reach goals -
HOW TO MANIFEST
Great entry level read into manifestation
Looking for actionable step by step guide
Want a better understanding of how subconscious beliefs attract and mirror everything into your life
Interested in doing the work and rewiring programmed beliefs
Feeling frustrated that nothing you want is called into you life
Discovering and bringing light to limiting belief systems and habits
Always living out of scarcity rather than abundance
Experiencing low self worth and never feeling truly deserving of what you desire -
THE LAW OF ATTRACTION
Interested in spirituality and energetic alignment
Finding yourself focusing on lack, scarcity and fear
Looking to shift subconscious and conscious thinking towards possibility and abundance
Interested in the principles of universal and spiritual law
Feeling stuck in a negative or limiting mindset
Want to cultivate a different mindset aligned with possibility and positivity
Looking to understand connections between thought and outcome
ADDICTION AND RECOVERY-
WOMEN FOOD AND GOD
Experience complicated relationship with food and disordered eating
Use food as comfort or punishment
Feel disconnected from the body
Struggle with body image and self love and acceptance
Interested in discovering the connections between food and emotion
Experience fixation on eating, food and dieting
Interested in mindfulness and the body
Feeling like your relationship with food connects and reflects o something deeper in your life
Food has become a source of comfort or guilt in your life -
LETTING GO
Tendency to repress your emotions than feeling them
Exhausted from fighting your own feelings
Often find it difficult to surrender control
Want to understand the emotional patterns under compulsive behaviors
Carry a lot of guilt and shame
Looking to discover how to self regulate
Seeking more self awareness towards patterns of behavior
Want to let go of old identities and patterns
Curious about spirituality and recovery
Want to learn how to move through uncomfortable feelings -
IN THE REALM OF HUNGRY GHOSTS
Struggling with addiction or substance abuse
Looking to understand certain patterns of behavior on a deeper somatic level
Interested in discovering connections trauma with addiction
Feeling shameful about addiction and in need of a compassionate perspective
Curious to uncover emotional and psychological roots with addiction and abuse
Exploring addiction through the lens of trauma and experience
Great for family members, friends and partners of the addicted
YOGA AND SPIRITUALITY-
TAO TE CHING
Poetic take on spiritual lessons and Eastern Philosophy
Interested in exploring ideas around humility and acceptance
Wanting to move through life with more peace and intention
Opening the mind to another world of spiritual wisdom and perspective
Great for those in need of humbling or sick of constantly striving -
STILL THE MIND
Beautiful intro to meditation and Alan Watts
Curious about Eastern philosophy and mindfulness
Feeling disconnected to the present
Great for overthinkers and people with trouble letting go
Interested in the practice of detachment -
FREEDOM FROM THE KNOWN
Questioning your beliefs and thoughts
Living on autopilot or to societal expectations and conditions
Exploring self awareness as freedom
Wondering why you think the way you do?
Interested in consciousness and philosophy -
THE YAMAS AND NIYAMAS
Interested in the philosophy of yoga and its founding principles beyond the physical practice
Want to live a more conscious. ethical, peaceful life
Looking to explore habits, behaviors and relationships more deeply
A guidebook on ethics for the yogi -
THE UNTETHERED SOUL
Curious in exploring your consciousness
Seeking inner clarity and surrendering to life unfolding
Difficulty getting out of your own head or feeling ruled by the voices in your mind
Great for overthinkers or anxious people -
ONE SIMPLE THING
Great introductory book to yoga and its philosophy beyond asana
Interested in exploring how yoga affects the mind and body and its connection with science and neuroscience
Curious about why and how yoga transforms our emotional states as well as the physical body -
LIGHT ON YOGA
Interested in deepening your yoga practice
Curious to learn alignment, adjustment and techniques of postures
Great resource for students and yoga teachers
Interested to learn the actual benefits and cause and effects of each asana posture -
THE YOGA SUTRAS OF PATANJALI
Great for anyone looking to do deeper into yogic philosophy
Seeking a framework to living more consciously
Looking to go beyond the physical practice of yoga and understand its roots and traditions
Great for yoga teachers or serious practitioners -
YOGA THERAPY
Want to understand yoga as therapy
Interested in learning more about mind, body, breath and movement connection
Seeking a more inward approach to yoga
Curious about connection between physical practice and emotional wellbeing